Millenials.. what the hell..
Transitioning to adulthood isn't new, but there is a more modern way to describe it: adulting.
Get your car's oil changed? That's adulting. Cook dinner instead of order takeout? That's adulting.
The school offers private social media groups and live events at local bars and restaurants. At these events, attendees can learn skills like how to network as a pro or how to fold a fitted sheet.
Carly Bouchard, 29, sat among a couple of dozen young adults sipping drinks at a Portland restaurant and hoping to uncover their true financial self.
"I'm a financial cripple," Bouchard said.
Although she went to business school, Bouchard said, she now needs the Adulting School.
"I'm still a dolt," she said. "Not an 'A-dult' — a dolt — when it comes to my finances."
Adrienne Abramowitz, 25, watched a demonstration on proper folding and then grabbed a fitted sheet as her friend Emily Rice, 26, coached.
"You put it together, and then you pinch it," Abramowitz said.
But after a futile attempt, they called for help.
Despite the fun vibe, the goal behind the school is serious.
Co-founder Rachel Weinstein got the idea from her work as a psychotherapist. She noticed many of her clients struggled with the transition to adulthood. Things like paying bills on time and choosing a career were difficult for them.
"You know, when you see 10 people feeling like they're the only one, and they're all struggling with the same thing, you think, let's get these people together so they can learn this stuff and not feel so isolated and ashamed," Weinstein said.
They tend to be millennials and women. Lindsay Rowe Scala, 32, said she is trying to figure out how to save for the future and pay off school debt.
"In job interviews, they're always asking 'Where do you want to see yourself in five years?' " she said. "And I never know how to answer that because I'm always thinking on how to survive today and next week and what's coming up."
Holly Swyers, an associate professor of anthropology at Lake Forest College who has researched adulthood, said this stress goes back generations. She said part of the problem is that classes that teach life skills, like home economics, aren't emphasized and there is no dedicated place to learn adult skills.
"We go through this age-graded system, and it tells us just do this and you'll be fine," Swyers says. "And then you graduate from high school or from college, and suddenly, there's no more rules about, if you just do this step, that's what comes next."
The Adulting School has drawn criticism for its perceived coddling. But Swyers said the school deserves kudos for addressing a real problem.
As adults navigate from dependence to independence, Swyers said she would like to see more proactive approaches in helping them accomplish their transition.
**Edited to fix formatting