Honestly just to not have any hesitation. Like 95% of the time the thing that kills people is they do everything right, sbd then just stop on the last part. Shot, escape, etc. Just wrestle through it. I don’t concern myself with winning at the kids level. Just making sure kids have fun and score points. Going out and ketting it fly. I will never be mad at somebody for going for it. Maybe if it’s an important high school match but that’s different. Just let it fly, know your positions and keep your hips active.
As far as something specific, just any time you make contact in a tie position, move laterally. Because that trail leg is going to overcompensate and step to keep them balanced so if you get a collar and circle to your left, their left leg is going to follow because of the direction you’re taking them.
Once you start looking at neutral like that then you can add your own stuff to it. It gets fun.