Did your parents let you roam around all day?

Me and my friends rode bikes and walked everywhere. Always exploring neighborhoods and the woods and going to the mall. Alone. Miles and miles. This is fucked. The kids had a one mile walk home.

‘Free-range’ parents plan to file lawsuit after police pick up children

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A D.C-based law firm will file suit and pursue “all legal remedies” to protect the rights of the Maryland parents whose two young children were taken into custody for more than five hours Sunday after someone reported them as they made their way home unsupervised from a Silver Spring park, the firm said Tuesday.

Danielle and Alexander Meitiv were “rightfully outraged by the irresponsible actions” of Maryland Child Protective Services and Montgomery County police, said attorney Matthew Dowd, of the firm Wiley Rein, in a written statement.

“We must ask ourselves how we reached the point where a parent’s biggest fear is that government officials will literally seize our children off the streets as they walk in our neighborhoods,” he said.

Dowd was not immediately available for comment Tuesday, but said through a spokeswoman that the firm would file the legal action “soon.” He declined to say through the spokeswoman who the suit is being filed against. The firm is representing the family pro bono.

The Meitivs’ children were picked up by police as they walked home from Ellsworth Park at 5 p.m. Sunday. Their parents had expected them home by 6 p.m. and Danielle Meitiv said they frantically searched for Rafi, 10, and Dvora, 6, before being notified at 8 p.m. that CPS had the children.

The statement issued Tuesday said the children were three blocks from their house when they were stopped by officers in three squad cars and “subjected to a terrifying detainment that no child should have to experience.”

“Shockingly, the Meitiv children experienced this maltreatment at the hands of the very government officials who are entrusted to uphold the law and ensure that children in need are taken care of,” it said.

The Meitivs are believers in a “free range” style of parenting, which holds that children learn to be self-reliant by progressively testing limits and being allowed to roam the world without hovering adults.

The statement alleged that the pair were detained in a police car for almost three hours, kept from their parents for over six hours without access to food, and “not returned to the parents until almost midnight on the night before school.”

In an interview with The Washington Post, Danielle Meitiv said that her son told her the children were misled into believing police would take them home. Police had all the Meitivs’ contact information and did not call the parents, or allow the children to call their parents, the statement alleges.

Danielle Meitiv said that she and her husband arrived at a CPS crisis center at 8:30 p.m. and were allowed to see their children at 10:30 p.m. and take them home. Meitiv said the family had to sign papers saying the children would not be unattended while CPS followed up on the case.

Montgomery County police said Monday that a call came in to check on the children’s welfare shortly before 5 p.m. and that an officer found the children in a parking garage. Police said an officer saw a “homeless subject” who was “eyeing the children.”

Police said the officer notified CPS, as is required in circumstances involving possible child abuse or neglect. After a series of calls, police say the children were left at CPS at 7:43 p.m. Police said the officer followed the direction of CPS in the matter.

CPS officials would not answer direct questions Monday, but issued a statement saying that “protecting children is the agency’s number one priority. We are required to follow up on all calls to Child Protective Services and will continue to work in the best interest of all children.”

The Sunday episode followed an earlier incident when the Meitiv children were picked up by police as they walked home from a different Silver Spring park, about a mile from their home. In both instances, callers reported the children to police.

In the earlier case, the parents were held responsible for “unsubstantiated neglect” and informed that CPS would keep a file on the family for at least five years.

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As a child I left home at like 8 am in the summer and came home for lunch. Then gone again til dinner. Zero supervision I was raised by wolves lol. She we had like 3 different porn forts son!

3 blocks is bullshit. Those kids will grow up better for not being coddled like millennials. Phone Post 3.0

Shit. Not she. Fucking iPhone. Phone Post 3.0

As a kid my parents had no idea where I was on the weekends or after school. Was born in 1970 for reference. Phone Post 3.0

In middle school I would bike for fucking hours . I would be gone all day sometimes Phone Post 3.0

When I was 10-11 or so, I would take a couple dollars in quarters, ride my bike the four miles into town and play Elevator Action at the local pizza place. Phone Post 3.0

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I was out after breakfast, had to be home by dinner, and out again right after dinner if allowed.


Pretty much this. It was a different time then. The media has put this fear in society nowadays that if you let your children do this something bad will always happen.

1975 born btw Phone Post 3.0

We had free rein until night time. At my mom's house I would be riding bikes all over town and exploring, while at my dad's I would be either roaming around the woods with a .22 and a couple hundred rounds, or fishing.

kosmo777 - As a kid my parents had no idea where I was on the weekends or after school. Was born in 1970 for reference. Phone Post 3.0


I was born in 1972. Lived in California. We spend days at the mall, arcade, skating and riding bikes and finding a swimming pool. I mowed yards for spending money and we ate at the food courts and 7/11. Nothing like the freedom of an untethered kid with friends and wheels. No phone, no chores, no limits.

Yes, would come back to eat and sleep... Usually. Phone Post 3.0

I'm 46. I was either fishing or riding horses or my motorcycle all day in the summer after chores. All day. Be home by dark. Get up as early as possible to get chores done and then play all day long. Fuckin chores. Phone Post 3.0

During the summers I was out all day. Grew up in the early 90's. I had to keep a couple of quarters on me at all times in case I needed to call my mom at work. Never once was my crew ever endangered.

Now that i think of it, my instincts are what they are because of it. Kids these days have zero protective instincts. It's sad. Why in the hell wouldn't they just call their parents? An all night detainment when the cop could have just called the parents will cause more damage to these kids then letting them roam around. Phone Post 3.0

Girly - In middle school I would bike for fucking hours . I would be gone all day sometimes Phone Post 3.0


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Leave home in the morning, be back by dinner, then out until the street lights went home. Ahhh the 70s. It's a different time and I was in the suburbs. This is 2015, it's a different time. Phone Post 3.0

As a young kid I was allowed anywhere in the neighborhood, which was pretty big probably about a mile or so long. Wasn't allowed out onto the main roads though.

I think it was 11 when I was allowed to walk along the main road right outside my neighborhood to get to some of my friends houses.

By 12 I was going wherever the fuck I wanted. Would ride my bike miles to get to friends houses or explore or whatever. No idea how I knew where the fuck I was going but I always got where I wanted. Now I can't find my way anywhere without checking the gps on my phone five million times.

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kosmo777 - As a kid my parents had no idea where I was on the weekends or after school. Was born in 1970 for reference. Phone Post 3.0


I was born in 1972. Lived in California. We spend days at the mall, arcade, skating and riding bikes and finding a swimming pool. I mowed yards for spending money and we ate at the food courts and 7/11. Nothing like the freedom of an untethered kid with friends and wheels. No phone, no chores, no limits.

Yup. Mountain biking in Silverado and saddleback mountain. We had to be home by street lights as little kids, but after that it was only based on if we wanted to eat.

Hell, my mom never knew where we were and she had 5 of us. Phone Post 3.0

Born in 83 and I would go out with friends and bike ride everywhere from age 10 Phone Post 3.0

Yes but I didn't live in Silver Springs either. Silver Springs isn't the rural suburbs from the parts I've been to its a proper part of the DC metropolitan area.

Let the CPS people do their job and investigate this IMO.

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