The new women in my life says today she can't except my fighter lifestyle. I am so stressed today, and has caused me to miss training. She is new in my life, but was becoming a serious thing. She wasn't one of my typical bar fly girls that I get bored of. She didn't call me yesterday, and like a good guy I called her between my training sessions in my car. Tried to explain to her what it is like 4-6 weeks leading up to a fight, but rest of time fairly easy. Today calls and doesn't think we are in the same place in life. She's 31, me 26. I'm like, what does it matter, nothing will matter for 2-3 years anyway in a relationship. Your not going to get married or get a house together before than anyway. I figure, This sport and myself I will either be in a certain place within two years now that I am dedicated and know it is definately going somewhere and some financial success (between MMA and starting boxing career soon), or I won't and then can become a firefighter or cop or go back into military like she was talking to me about a few days ago. Just watched The Smashing Machine again, and I don't need those distractions. I told her I was upset she is making judgements before even watching my fights, or looking up anything on net or anything. She calls it "my boxing thing". I figured, fudge it were done whatever and made plans with one of my bar flies wanting to get over depression right away. But then she called and we talked, and she said she would like to talk in person probably tonight. I've left her a message since then and said I would appreciate getting together tonight and showing her some of the magazines I have been in, my fights, and one UFC fight (Tito vs. Randy. I am waiting to here back from her. Earliar she was saying now she thinks we need to be a more casual thing than boyfriend/girlfriend route we were going done. Now I am pissed off and hurt, but figure if she calls me tonight and will look at MMA then maybe she could still be my main thing, and someone I could take to christmas parties etc when I get back from upcoming fight. Frustrated, Dear MMA abby, what do I do? Similar stories? Honest advise? Needed to vent :)
I bet she regrets letting that one get away.
Classic.
Eesh.
Man up Sally.
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't accept something that is of such paramount importance to you?
I've dropped more than one girl the first time she gave me shit for training.
She doesn't have to understand it, she just has to appreciate how much it means to YOU. That's not the vibe I'm getting.
there are plenty of women out there that do get it. My wife trains and has fought. It's such a huge part of our lives. Something we share together.
Dont settle.
Your wife is trans? Fuck off faggot
I won't "ACCEPT" your poor grammar.
You are planning on starting a boxing career at 26? How many amateur fights have you had?
Straydog24 -I won't "ACCEPT" your poor grammar.
Seriously. I thought the title was just a typo, but then it's repeated throughout the thread. Millennials. smdh
Where is Dan these days?
Straydog24 -I won't "ACCEPT" your poor grammar.
Lol
dump the girl, get another one
Your in the wrong form ashool
She's 5 years older than you. Walk.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Take care of your brain.
You will pay a price for every shot you take.
Trust me.
So what you're saying is....
She won't let you bang, bro!?
Dan the wolfman!
Brush up on your UG history you dorks who are ripping on OP.
HighInsideLegKick -Dan the wolfman!
Brush up on your UG history you dorks who are ripping on OP.
what’s your old sn? OP is a very old reference.
I bet "fighter lifestyle" means he doesn't have a job.
...lol, noobs
This is deja vu.
This is deja vu.
ABCTT_TFK_Mr.Smiff -HighInsideLegKick -Dan the wolfman!
Brush up on your UG history you dorks who are ripping on OP.
what’s your old sn? OP is a very old reference.
I don’t have one. I saw a thread once that was talking about classic threads. I googled a few of the ones that got multiple mentions.
I googled that one, the one about the Attica MMA scam, and the thread of the year by boro jr