I banged 18 sugar babies in 4 months AMA

Zned - 
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 




This.

Let's say that I accidentally clicked a link on this thread and ended up on the website... do you look for anything specific in the girls profile?

Like some list what they are looking for and choose "no strings attached", but then others say they want romantic nights. Do you have any vetting criteria based on profile?

Windy City - 
Theilenmyself -

Any catfish? Does that lead to haggling?

 

I had a go tell me she considered being a sugar baby and probably would if she was single. I told her that made her a prostitute.

 

She thot there was a difference lol

No, catfish. All the girls that I have met were the same girls that sent me pics before meeting them.

I prefer to discuss pay before we meet. The few times I didn't they tried to ask for more, I didn't give them what they asked.


So you've never had one of them show up and not look as good as their pics?? 95% of the profile pics are using filters so Im kind of surprised.

Not sure if you covered this, but have you ever had the same woman multiple times? 

On a side note, one very good looking 24 year old started with the comment, "Dont you dare message me talking about 200-500 for 'intimacy'. This is an upscale site!" etc I thought it was funny, because that is exactly what you do and judging by her comment it is a pretty common approach.

multiculturaljoseph -

I'll co-sign the "never tell whores where you sleep." rule. I know a guy who got robbed off Tinder, girl started to blow him upstairs when someone kicked in the door downstairs, ended with him locking himself in a bathroom while they ransacked and stole electronics. She was sexy too. Solid 8.

Dude should have had a gun. The only reason they didn't kick the bathroom door in, is because they probably heard him whimpering and laughed themselves out the door. 

Thanks for answering my question and I think you're smart to insist on protection. Question - do you find that the girls also insist on protection? Or are you the one that makes that happen. Also, I'm assuming no condom for blowjobs, correct?

lionsoul -

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?

Usually, it is straight up down to the dirty. That being said I am very straightforward with them from the inital message and let them know my expectations. A few want to meet for a drink first, but the majority I have met many at my hotel room. Usually it is 5-40 minutes from meet to smash.

Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 

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Skillrules -
Windy City - 
Theilenmyself -

Any catfish? Does that lead to haggling?

 

I had a go tell me she considered being a sugar baby and probably would if she was single. I told her that made her a prostitute.

 

She thot there was a difference lol

No, catfish. All the girls that I have met were the same girls that sent me pics before meeting them.

I prefer to discuss pay before we meet. The few times I didn't they tried to ask for more, I didn't give them what they asked.

 

So you've never had one of them show up and not look as good as their pics?? 95% of the profile pics are using filters so Im kind of surprised.


Not sure if you covered this, but have you ever had the same woman multiple times? 


On a side note, one very good looking 24 year old started with the comment, "Dont you dare message me talking about 200-500 for 'intimacy'. This is an upscale site!" etc I thought it was funny, because that is exactly what you do and judging by her comment it is a pretty common approach.



I always look at their pics on the site and I have them send me multiple pics through text. Sure some of them looked slightly better in pics, but not by much. It was never that noticeable were I was dissapointed. I guess I got lucky in that regard.


I have also had many comments like that directed toward me saying I am not an escort, I am a woman. This was with a 19 year old who wanted 500 for the night, I said 300 take it or leave it. She left it. What is funny is you will find girls on the site that just want platonic friendships and want to get paid. I have also been told that they don't do pay per meets and only do monthly allowances. I always respond with I can't make that commitment, lets meet up and we can discuss that after meet.


 


 


 

Lukinho -

Thanks for answering my question and I think you're smart to insist on protection. Question - do you find that the girls also insist on protection? Or are you the one that makes that happen. Also, I'm assuming no condom for blowjobs, correct?

Almost all the girls I would guess would insist on protection, because probably half or more asked you have condomns right? With blowjobs I only had one who insisted I put on a condomn and she blew me with the condomn on. 

 

What I find surprising is that quite a few of these girls will swallow. 

 

Many of these girls will say and they almost all say this that guys beg to fuck them without a condomn. In my mind I was like these guys must be nuts. lol

Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 



Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.

e. kaye -
Zned - 
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?

 

I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.

They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.

 

What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.

 

 

 

This.

OP stated in the OP that what you described is what most of them are hoping for. He's just not being that guy. Good on him. 

I'm not going to judge the moral element of this...I just can't imagine moderating my spend once I crossed the line and did this for the first time.  I have always felt the same about rub and tugs....even if I could get past the ethical part (I'm married) I could only imagine it becoming a daily habit and ending up broke. 
 

 

NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?

 

I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.

They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.

 

What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.

 

 

That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol

 

Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 


Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Try me, send them my way and see if they will laugh in my face. The majority of porn stars fuck on camera for 1k. I could fuck probably 99.9% of girls on SA for 1k. 


 


There is not one girl on that site that will not fuck for 1k with the exception of a few 18 year olds who are looking for strictly platonic.


 


Those girls that hustled for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or suck will fuck and suck dudes for free out of the sugar world. lol


 


Every girl has a price even the barista at starbucks.

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multiculturaljoseph -

I'll co-sign the "never tell whores where you sleep." rule. I know a guy who got robbed off Tinder, girl started to blow him upstairs when someone kicked in the door downstairs, ended with him locking himself in a bathroom while they ransacked and stole electronics. She was sexy too. Solid 8.

She didn't even finish him off? 

Windy City -
NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?

 

I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.

They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.

 

What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.

 

 

That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol

 

Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 


Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Try me, send them my way and see if they will laugh in my face. The majority of porn stars fuck on camera for 1k. I could fuck probably 99.9% of girls on SA for 1k. 


 


There is not one girl on that site that will not fuck for 1k with the exception of a few 18 year olds who are looking for strictly platonic.


 


Those girls that hustled for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or suck will fuck and suck dudes for free out of the sugar world. lol


 


Every girl has a price even the barista at starbucks.



I'm not gonna say he's lying about evvvvverything he said. But I'd have to assume he's strongly exaggerating the vast majority of that post. Although, I admittedly have no experience in the lucrative field of selling fart sniffs.

NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 



Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Lol, every bitch involved in this stuff is just a circumstance away from fucking for $300. I've known strippers that routinely made several thousand every time they worked and were banging dudes for $300 a year or two later. These aren't normal people and they live a life of chaos. None of them have any stability or any type of plan. Pretty Woman was just a movie. 

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fascinating thread

not my cup of tea, but no hate on my part for 2 consenting adults (barely adults, lol)

i prefer the older women 50+ yrs, always have

Eskimo - 
NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 



Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Lol, every bitch involved in this stuff is just a circumstance away from fucking for $300. I've known strippers that routinely made several thousand every time they worked and were banging dudes for $300 a year or two later. These aren't normal people and they live a life of chaos. None of them have any stability or any type of plan. Pretty Woman was just a movie. 




Not True.  It does happen.


I know a girl that just had a baby with a hedge fund guy that left wife, moved her into his SOHO loft.


It does not happen every day, but often enough.

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Eskimo -
NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 



Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Lol, every bitch involved in this stuff is just a circumstance away from fucking for $300. I've known strippers that routinely made several thousand every time they worked and were banging dudes for $300 a year or two later. These aren't normal people and they live a life of chaos. None of them have any stability or any type of plan. Pretty Woman was just a movie. 



I think that poster that said that is a sugar baby or a guy who spent tens of thousands of dollars and still couldn't close the deal.


 


 


 


 

e. kaye -
Eskimo - 
NKcell -
Windy City -
Zned -
lionsoul - 

How does this work?

Do you actually meet them for dinner or drinks or something?

Or is it straight to your house for the dirty?


I know quite a few guys with real sugar baby type arrangements.


They will usually meet and go out with them once a week or so. Expensive dinners, nights out, fancy hotels. They usually pay a bunch of their bills, lease them cars, and so on and so forth. These are longer term relationships.


 


What OP is describing is just meeting an escort. A lot of girls will call themsleves sugar babies, but then just charge a fee for each sexual encounter that doesn't have to involve anything else. Both sides of the transaction feel better about what they are doing because they don't call it prositution.


 


 



That is what the majority of the girls want. Hell, the girls that I am banging through SA want that. Guess what they are not going to get that with me. lol


 


Those sugar babies that your buddies are dropping all that money on, I will tell you what. Let me contact one of them and let me offer them 1k for the night. You will see how fast that sugar baby becomes an escort. 



Eeeeehhhhhh, I'm in the adult / sugar baby industry. I know alot of girls who would laugh in your face if you offered them a grand, they might let you smell a fart maybe.


There's different levels to every game. I've known girls who have hustled dudes for hundreds of thousands and never fucked or sucked and I've known girls who fuck for 300 bucks.



Lol, every bitch involved in this stuff is just a circumstance away from fucking for $300. I've known strippers that routinely made several thousand every time they worked and were banging dudes for $300 a year or two later. These aren't normal people and they live a life of chaos. None of them have any stability or any type of plan. Pretty Woman was just a movie. 




Not True.  It does happen.


I know a girl that just had a baby with a hedge fund guy that left wife, moved her into his SOHO loft.


It does not happen every day, but often enough.



It happens, but it doesn't mean that she wouldn't fuck for 1k.

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