FRAT warning…I´m not mad if you guys do not get to the end…
Life could be so beautiful, there are so many great moments and amazing days. But on the other side…life can hit you with a sucker punch like a f**king monster.
I´m not posting this to trigger compassion or anything.
I just love the OG and I know here are the guys I can talk about that situation. I´ve read similar posts and was overwhelmed by the responses and nice words from the OG.
I am happy about every single good prayer, helpful ideas or whatever!
Me and my family were doing good…everything could be fine.
But unfortunately, a long time ago, we have had private issues, my employer wasn´t paying a huge amount of money, bills couldn´t be paid, and from day to day the struggle took us deeper and deeper. That was just the beginning…
Bank accounts were blocked, electricity was shut down, and rent was not paid.
It was a vicious circle…if you have nothing, it could get worse every day.
We have worked hard to get out of that situation…multiple crappy jobs and sold everything possible…giving up everything that is not necessary.
The only thing we were living for was our family, our little son.
We were building up every single thing we´ve earned before and get back on a good life.
But life is still hard and there are still bills to be paid. As I was employed temporarily I do not get paid since oct last year.
2015 was starting and our landlord showed up…telling us that he needs the open rents from the bad days…and he will not wait any longer.
We were talking with him, his lawyers, our lawyer…we tried every way possible…no chance.
He told us if we cannot pay until the 23rd this month he will evict us and kick us out of the apartment.
First shock this year…
Short time later, my mother passed away and I felt some pain I have never felt before. It still hurts and I do not know how to handle that situation…
It feels like the world is collapsing…
The only good thing happened is the birth of our second son one week ago…
But every day is with the thoughts back in my head. I can´t sleep anymore and I am getting sick, seeing there´s no way out of the situation.
I was trying to talk to my bank adviser, but due to my negative credits back in the days, no chance to get a loan to get out of the situation.
Another plan was to try to find private investors on different platforms. This was working good first, but later we recognized that it will take months to be paid…time we do not have.
We already put everything together we can sell or get to the pawn shop in the end…
OG…do you have any idea how to get that money together? I do not wait for miracles or anything…but maybe anyone in here knows some ways to handle this situation.
Are there any kind of platforms for private investors out there I did not know? As I am from Germany, I just know the local providers. But maybe that would be another obstacle for foreign platforms.
I would also accept high interest to be paid back…I already signed a contract with my upcoming job in april which will be paid sooo good. But unfortunately, I do not have the time to wait till april.
I do not know what I expect from this thread…maybe I just needed to let it out and tell it someone.
I do not know how to handle that situation…if I do not find a solution to pay the landlord, me and my wife, and our two little kids will need to leave the apartment and do not have anything to stay.
So…if you guys have any ides, life pro tips, let me know…
Thanks for reading guys! Love you guys! Full homo!