I need job advice

tonyromosbackspasm - 

Well the wife has done a complete 180, and will not move to Japan. The tensions been huge in the house, if I take the job and move it will probably cause a divorce at this point. 

FUCK

Well earlier in the thread I sort of jokingly mentioned “Lost in Translation”

In the scenario you just described you could end up looking like the guy more interested in his job and work life than his wife.

Taking a guess. She doesn’t want to be that far away from her mother

Co3 -

Taking a guess. She doesn’t want to be that far away from her mother

Ding. Ding. Motherfucking Ding.

tonyromosbackspasm -
Co3 -

Taking a guess. She doesn’t want to be that far away from her mother

Ding. Ding. Motherfucking Ding.

Sounds like there’s deeper issues then that then. I wouldn’t say that your wife would pick her mom over you any day of the week, but she’s not gonna roll out to Japan with you. If it was me, I’d go anyway, since your wife seems more concerned with staying close to mommy instead of thinking of her family’s future, but that’s just me.