in class when you dont have time to make it to class but have sometime when you get home. which instructionals would you recommend, i was thinking about getting cesars gracies set
You may like "Margarida 101 - The Complete Lesson". All of the moves are easy to perform and are explained well. I was able to pull off one of the moves from the DVD in sparring without even practicing it. You can find the DVD's at -- http://www.bjjtapes.com/.
Michael "Bolo" Jen's instructionals have been very helpful.
Buy a grappling dummy (Bubba) and practice everything you know like a mofo!!!
For the money the Ceser Gracie set is one of the best.