My brother dated a girl and when they broke up I had the opportunity to bang her.
I declined and said it just did not seem like something I should do.
She was really insistent about it and kept at me but I kept saying no.
She finally gave up and later told my brother that she tried really hard to bang me to get back at him.
My Brother told her wouldn’t have cared but later one time when we were together at Christmas and he had a few beers in him he told me that he really liked her and that it would have hurt a lot if I had done that so he thanked me for being a good brother.
Later though I was banging this other girl and it turned out were liked each other better as friends and stayed good friends instead. Well she decided she wanted to try and date my brother and he does and doesn’t say anything for 2 months and brings her to a family function.
He comes up to me and tells me that he thought it would be ok since she and I broke up and remained good friends and that he thought I would want them both to be happy so it would be ok.
I said that he’s my brother and I do want him to be happy and left it at that but inside I was kinda disappointed in him because he should have known that it would sting a little.
I never said anything to them about it and just never got too involved with them while they were together.
They lasted another two months when they broke up because she didn’t want to continue and my brother was heartbroken.
Like seriously heartbroken because he really liked her and I have to say that she was the last girlfriend he ever dated who wasn’t batsh*t crazy.
His ex later tells me that she probably only dated him to stay close to me and my family and that it was a mistake, something I also never told my brother because it would have crushed him more.