Judge a person based on ther state of their room?

So you see lots of people post pics of themselves in their rooms and I think to myself, “What a f*cking mess their room is!”

Is it ok to judge them on that?

Like, if there are clothes all over the floor in your room but you’re making a cute duck face in a post, it’s noticeable!

Or your bed is just a mattress on the floor.

Worse, it’s not even covered in bed sheets or it’s not made.

The table beside your bed has cr@p all over it.

You don’t have curtains or you have a giant flag in the window.

over 25, yes

through college age, that's just their parents and society failing them. or untreated/undiagnosed depression.

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my wife and i are ocd and we keep the house super clean

but, there is a spare room where i have a mattress on the floor, and i sleep there most nights. I keep it neatly made, but yes, it’s just a mattress on the floor. I was poor growing up and that’s all I had, and I feel very comfortable sleeping by myself on a mattress on the floor lol.

Peixes - 

over 25, yes

through college age, that's just their parents and society failing them. or untreated/undiagnosed depression.

I see people posting pics on social media about being ballers and big timers and in their bedroom their bed touches 2 walls and has no frame and is on the floor with crumpled sheets on it.

Point that out and they say that they are out making it big time in the world and don’t have time to clean their room.

I call boolsheets on them.

I think Dougie is Jordan Peterson in real life

My room is strewn with bottles filled with urine because I'm too lazy and busy on the OG. That's how real OG'ers roll OP, don't be afraid homie

It's almost a metaphor for social media.

People want to portray themselves as glamorous and desirable in selfies, but in reality their lives are messy and unkept like their rooms.

dangerboy12 - my wife and i are ocd and we keep the house super clean

but, there is a spare room where i have a mattress on the floor, and i sleep there most nights. I keep it neatly made, but yes, it’s just a mattress on the floor. I was poor growing up and that’s all I had, and I feel very comfortable sleeping by myself on a mattress on the floor lol.

Dude, what? You don’t sleep with your lady?

Lazarus - I think Dougie is Jordan Peterson in real life

Is this good or bad?

I would add how clean her vehicle is. 

Not if it’s old, just if it has a shitload of trash.

Just seems if they don’t clean their car, how clean is their box?

Cleaner as I age. Hate messes. I throw out everything now. My family never asks me if we should keep anything. I throw it all.

I definitely judge on how clean the inside of your car is. People with random stuff just strewn about the car.

I've seen people that throw trash on the floor and just leave it there. Or fast food bags just tossed around the car. Gross. 

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I would add how clean her vehicle is. 

Not if it’s old, just if it has a shitload of trash.

Just seems if they don’t clean their car, how clean is their box?

I can counter this, had an ex with a car full of shit, more clothes in her car than I have clothes in my closet, shoes, etc. but she had the cleanest box on the planet 

ShortyMac -

My room is strewn with bottles filled with urine because I'm too lazy and busy on the OG. That's how real OG'ers roll OP, don't be afraid homie

Saw this at work once. Went to some student accommodations we look after, to test the fire alarm system. Went into one lads room n there was bottles filled with piss next to his bed 

I always refused to do phone interviews as an applicant. I want to see my bosses desk, I want to see the break room, the condition of the gear and the state of the team.

Yes, I judge.

ABCTT_PaleAndGangly -
dangerboy12 - my wife and i are ocd and we keep the house super clean

but, there is a spare room where i have a mattress on the floor, and i sleep there most nights. I keep it neatly made, but yes, it’s just a mattress on the floor. I was poor growing up and that’s all I had, and I feel very comfortable sleeping by myself on a mattress on the floor lol.

Dude, what? You don’t sleep with your lady?

He prefers actual sleep

Taylor27 -
ShortyMac -

My room is strewn with bottles filled with urine because I'm too lazy and busy on the OG. That's how real OG'ers roll OP, don't be afraid homie

Saw this at work once. Went to some student accommodations we look after, to test the fire alarm system. Went into one lads room n there was bottles filled with piss next to his bed 

I used to do it on deployments if my trailer or tent was several hundred yards from the latrine. I would throw them away when I got up the next day though.

Mountain Medic - 
ABCTT_PaleAndGangly -
dangerboy12 - my wife and i are ocd and we keep the house super clean

but, there is a spare room where i have a mattress on the floor, and i sleep there most nights. I keep it neatly made, but yes, it’s just a mattress on the floor. I was poor growing up and that’s all I had, and I feel very comfortable sleeping by myself on a mattress on the floor lol.

Dude, what? You don’t sleep with your lady?

He prefers actual sleep

Yeah. I found out years ago that I dont sleep well with someone else in the bed with me.

I need dead silence when i sleep. No ambient noises, no breathing noises, nothing. Dead silence.

I cant even sleep if it’s raining out.

No matter how quiet or still someone is, I can hear them breathing at the very minimum.

dangerboy12 -
Mountain Medic - 
ABCTT_PaleAndGangly -
dangerboy12 - my wife and i are ocd and we keep the house super clean

but, there is a spare room where i have a mattress on the floor, and i sleep there most nights. I keep it neatly made, but yes, it’s just a mattress on the floor. I was poor growing up and that’s all I had, and I feel very comfortable sleeping by myself on a mattress on the floor lol.

Dude, what? You don’t sleep with your lady?

He prefers actual sleep

Yeah. I found out years ago that I dont sleep well with someone else in the bed with me.

I need dead silence when i sleep. No ambient noises, no breathing noises, nothing. Dead silence.

I cant even sleep if it’s raining out.

No matter how quiet or still someone is, I can hear them breathing at the very minimum.

Ah! That’s interesting.