OG failure stories after being single

This is a "spin" of large fun bags thread:Og success stories after being single

 


I want to hear from OGers that have decided to dump their GF's or divorce their wives in attempts to establish a new relationship with a better woman, only to have nothing but failure and regret, quietly wishing they could go back and never leave that woman to begin with. Phone Post 3.0

Lol at getting the OG he-man woman haters to admit to this. Never going to happen

Why was that thread deleted? Phone Post 3.0

This thread will be an abject failure. The only upside to staying monogamous is being able to parent your children full time.

I'll be back shortly to share my sad story...

garrote - Why was that thread deleted? Phone Post 3.0


Op of that thread probably asked for it to be deleted because his GF almost found out or did find out that he made it

Shit, i dumped my girl about a year ago, been single since. Happiest time of my life lol. Phone Post 3.0

Dumped a girl in highschool, lets call her Rachel, to get with a much hotter girl, lets call her Sam. Now Rachel claimed to love me like nothin else in the world, I even thought I loved her (I was sixteen) but alas, my little head would be doing all the thinking for me. Sooo got with the much hotter girl and what do I get for thinking with my pecker? Absolutely zero fucking play from her. Ended up boning Rachel for the next year. Phone Post 3.0

Phaedo - I'll be back shortly to share my sad story...
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Jack Carter - 
Phaedo - I'll be back shortly to share my sad story...
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Shit... LONG story short...

I dated a great girl for 10 years. She was pretty and honest, which I now realize is the most important traits in a woman. I was faithful, but I flirted with other girls a lot. And I always wondered what it would be like to be single. I didn't want to sleep with tons of women, but I did have some romantic ideal of myself as independent and living on my own. I'm a serial monogamist, and I didn't know what it was like to be alone.

Well, I was spending a year studying in Europe without my girlfriend, and I realized that if I hadn't committed to her yet, it wasn't going to happen... without some change on my part. And there was another girl that I was interested in (although that wasn't why I broke up... but it helped). So, I broke up with my girlfriend. I ended my ten year relationship, via Skype. It took me about a week to realize that I hate being single. It really just isn't in my nature. A couple months later, I started dating the other girl I was interested in.

So, a month or so after that, I come back to the USA. My Ex and I were living together. She moved, so I found all my stuff packed up in boxes and my friends house. Then I realized that I was an idiot. She and I had something good. And I didn't appreciate it. But, she made it pretty clear that she wanted nothing to do with me. Breaking up with her after 10 years... she's not forgiving that. She moved on. I dated the girl from Europe for awhile - but I missed my ex. And I just broke up with the girl from Europe.

So, now I'm totally alone. Most of the people I spent time with were actually my ex's friends... so, now I'm alone, with very few friends, in my 30s... and I miss her... 10 years gone.

I don't think I could have done otherwise, given who I was. But it's tragic. The "me" post-breakup and the "her" pre-breakup could have had a great relationship - but they'll never meet.

So now I just drink and think about what I lost.

Phaedo - 
Jack Carter - 
Phaedo - I'll be back shortly to share my sad story...
Cam on! Phone Post 3.0

Shit... LONG story short...

I dated a great girl for 10 years. She was pretty and honest, which I now realize is the most important traits in a woman. I was faithful, but I flirted with other girls a lot. And I always wondered what it would be like to be single. I didn't want to sleep with tons of women, but I did have some romantic ideal of myself as independent and living on my own. I'm a serial monogamist, and I didn't know what it was like to be alone.

Well, I was spending a year studying in Europe without my girlfriend, and I realized that if I hadn't committed to her yet, it wasn't going to happen... without some change on my part. And there was another girl that I was interested in (although that wasn't why I broke up... but it helped). So, I broke up with my girlfriend. I ended my ten year relationship, via Skype. It took me about a week to realize that I hate being single. It really just isn't in my nature. A couple months later, I started dating the other girl I was interested in.

So, a month or so after that, I come back to the USA. My Ex and I were living together. She moved, so I found all my stuff packed up in boxes and my friends house. Then I realized that I was an idiot. She and I had something good. And I didn't appreciate it. But, she made it pretty clear that she wanted nothing to do with me. Breaking up with her after 10 years... she's not forgiving that. She moved on. I dated the girl from Europe for awhile - but I missed my ex. And I just broke up with the girl from Europe.

So, now I'm totally alone. Most of the people I spent time with were actually my ex's friends... so, now I'm alone, with very few friends, in my 30s... and I miss her... 10 years gone.

I don't think I could have done otherwise, given who I was. But it's tragic. The "me" post-breakup and the "her" pre-breakup could have had a great relationship - but they'll never meet.

So now I just drink and think about what I lost.

Stop feelin sorry for yourself and go drown in some fatties from POF, after a while you'll probly realize being single aint so bad and eventually you'll find one you like, probly not on POF though.

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Phaedo, thank you for sharing that Phone Post 3.0

Fuck... depressing thread is depressing... Phone Post 3.0

Bit OT but I gotta funny story here

Ahem..

 

I once paid 20 euros to an escort for a hug and hug only, then left.

 

Hehe... Good times. Good times...

 

 

I hate my life.

Heikki Mustola - 


Bit OT but I gotta funny story here



Ahem..



 



I once paid 20 euros to an escort for a hug and hug only, then left.



 



Hehe... Good times. Good times...



 





 



I hate my life.


That is the most pathetic thing I've heard in my whole life!

alley - 
Heikki Mustola - 


Bit OT but I gotta funny story here



Ahem..



 



I once paid 20 euros to an escort for a hug and hug only, then left.



 



Hehe... Good times. Good times...



 





 



I hate my life.


That is the most pathetic thing I've heard in my whole life!


I know, it is quite funny when you think about it.



I chuckle about the thought every now and then and a shy smile comes to my face, who is a rare visitor



But then I get mad and punch myself in the balls. Hell, I deserve it

pat barrys shorts - Dumped a girl in highschool, lets call her Rachel, to get with a much hotter girl, lets call her Sam. Now Rachel claimed to love me like nothin else in the world, I even thought I loved her (I was sixteen) but alas, my little head would be doing all the thinking for me. Sooo got with the much hotter girl and what do I get for thinking with my pecker? Absolutely zero fucking play from her. Ended up boning Rachel for the next year. Phone Post 3.0
So it was a success in the end? Phone Post 3.0

Philliger - 
Phaedo -
Jack Carter - 
Phaedo - I'll be back shortly to share my sad story...
        <span class="User-344563" id="userPost49247054"><span class="User-184363" id="userPost49238637">Cam on! <img alt="Phone Post 3.0" border="0" src="/images/phone/apple.png" style="vertical-align:middle;" /></span></span></blockquote>
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    <span class="User-344563" id="userPost49247054">Shit... LONG story short...<br />
    <br />
    I dated a great girl for 10 years. She was pretty and honest, which I now realize is the most important traits in a woman. I was faithful, but I flirted with other girls a lot. And I always wondered what it would be like to be single. I didn't want to sleep with tons of women, but I did have some romantic ideal of myself as independent and living on my own. I'm a serial monogamist, and I didn't know what it was like to be alone.<br />
    <br />
    Well, I was spending a year studying in Europe without my girlfriend, and I realized that if I hadn't committed to her yet, it wasn't going to happen... without some change on my part. And there was another girl that I was interested in (although that wasn't why I broke up... but it helped). So, I broke up with my girlfriend. I ended my ten year relationship, via Skype. It took me about a week to realize that I hate being single. It really just isn't in my nature. A couple months later, I started dating the other girl I was interested in.<br />
    <br />
    So, a month or so after that, I come back to the USA. My Ex and I were living together. She moved, so I found all my stuff packed up in boxes and my friends house. Then I realized that I was an idiot. She and I had something good. And I didn't appreciate it. But, she made it pretty clear that she wanted nothing to do with me. Breaking up with her after 10 years... she's not forgiving that. She moved on. I dated the girl from Europe for awhile - but I missed my ex. And I just broke up with the girl from Europe.<br />
    <br />
    So, now I'm totally alone. Most of the people I spent time with were actually my ex's friends... so, now I'm alone, with very few friends, in my 30s... and I miss her... 10 years gone.<br />
    <br />
    I don't think I could have done otherwise, given who I was. But it's tragic. The &quot;me&quot; post-breakup and the &quot;her&quot; pre-breakup could have had a great relationship - but they'll never meet.<br />
    <br />
    So now I just drink and think about what I lost.</span></blockquote>
<span class="User-344563" id="userPost49247054">Did she marry? If not, fight for her...you can't wash away 10 years. There IS something you can say to her to get her back. You just have to figure out what that is. <img alt="Phone Post 3.0" border="0" src="/images/phone/apple.png" style="vertical-align:middle;" /></span></blockquote>

 

You can though.. Ask any OGer that's been MARRIED with KIDS 10+ years then gets a divorce.

 

 

i think a lot of ppl make the mistake of saving something or thinking they can get it back simply because if the time put into it happened to be a few years.

it's like building a wall, tearing it down again, then building back up. May have the same materials and the wall may look similar but will never be the same.

 

dude gambled and lost. She knows she's a catch and there's no need to stick around for someone who took her for granted the first chance he got in another country. She was expecting a ring, not a Skype "we gotta talk"

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