I am rather young. And I have only been with two different women in my life. With both I have experienced trouble with coming too quickly. It is embarrasing, does anyone have any advice about fighting this problem?
Please dont troll me on this.
My brother recommends thinking of something REALLY un-appetizing when you start to feel like cumming, but not for TOO long or you'll have erectile problems.
Alternately you can train yourself when you jack off to stop right before you cum with Kegels (google), purportedly you can eventually seperate ejaculation and orgasm with enough work, though who knows if that's bullshit or not.
Regardless, I believe this will be resolved with enough experience, enough alcohol, or both.
It took me a long while to figure this out.
Food and liquid will put pressure on down there and cause you to release quickly. If your stomach is emoty, that will help a lot. Also if you are a bit dehydrated.
u wil need time to experience ur body capability ..going slow or fast or at a pace....these variables will need trial n error n how to control momentum..
a few shots of alcohol helps, condoms as wel but like i mention its knowing ur body after time.
yuou're a young guy? Who cares? You're supposed to bust early! Enjoy it.
BENZOCAINE SPRAY and a condom (otherwise she goes numb too).
go ask this question on the OG...
I am sure they wil be more than happy to give you serious mature responses and will be glad to help you out.
empty the gun before you shoot
DirkH - BENZOCAINE SPRAY and a condom (otherwise she goes numb too).
how safe is this?
That is super safe. It just numbs the skin a little. Its used for sunburns.
DON'T get it on her, she will go numb!
Found somthing even better.....tramadol aka ultram. Synthetic opiod painkiller. Prescription only, and most docs don't know it does this. But it's safe. I took 2 once for a headache, which was almost too much cause you have trouble staying hard, but I went for FOUR hours!!!! Holy shit!
Man this is an old thread. But use benzocaine spray about 15 min before hand. PERFECTLY safe. Even your doc will say so.
my gosh this thread got bumped lol
I know this is only checked every 6 months but easiest way to last longer is to change positions after every few minutes. Your girl will think you're a super freak and you can use the breaks in between to give yourself a chance to settle down.
GodSaveThePippa - I know this is only checked every 6 months but easiest way to last longer is to change positions after every few seconds. Your girl will think you're a super freak and you can use the breaks in between to give yourself a chance to settle down.
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turducken -GodSaveThePippa - I know this is only checked every 6 months but easiest way to last longer is to change positions after every few seconds. Your girl will think you're a super freak and you can use the breaks in between to give yourself a chance to settle down.
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The fixed version is correct. Any one that thinks guys complaining about premature ejaculation are complaing because they only last a few MINUTES, doesn't have a clue. If you are a doctor & think this, you didn't listen to your patient.
All that nonsense advice given, like just pause (yeah, 5 strokes, pause & still come or move so little you girl has ZERO chance of enjoying herself), squeeze the head (yeah, & shoot come out under high pressure), squeeze your muscles like you are stopping urine flow (flexing doesn't help, at all)
Some peoples nevous sytems just have hair triggers. End of debate. The well meaning advice is just nonsense & not helpfull. Drugs help, nothing else does, period.
Get a desensitizing spray with a 9.6% lido-cane solution; this will help a great deal.
There's a great one out there called Stud 100; you can still feel pressure, but use that stuff with a condom and you will destroy...
its all about breathing and internal muscle control......no drugs needed. It isn´t easy but posssible to learn and you can control it as long as you want.....
I'm not buying it. It's about the sympathetic nervous system, depress that and you delay ejaculation.
This happended to me when I was younger, it was mainly a mental things, but I tried the Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms and it worked. Just try to relax a bit