Yes this is a FRAT. But it is important, so if you give a shit about our sport, read on.
This post addresses some issues that were in tonight's TUF3 episode, but it is overall about our sport, and the mentality that is being built by some fighters and fans. So please leave it in the UG forums so that more people will view it.
So basically in tonight's episode, 2 fighters (Tait and Kristian) were given the chance to return, and both declined, with Tait saying he wasn't mentally prepared, and Kristian saying he didn't want to lose on TV again.
For anyone wanting to say that the decision not to return is ok, please check out Fred Ettish's response in the ATTN: Damebushi thread, and read about what the fuck it takes to want something that so many people want, and know that you may only have one shot.
I have respect for Tait and Kristian, but fuck man, the majority of us up-and-coming fighters want this shit so bad, we'll step through anyone in our way. It doesn't matter if Kristian already lost to Bisping, it doesn't matter if Tait didn't like the decision in his fight, none of that shit matters. This is fucking FIGHTING. It's what we get paid to do, and there's way too much these days of guys backing out of fights, and tapping out early from a couple clean shots, and not accepting fights because their fucking toenail hurts. We see this shit all over the place, and some people are beginning to think it's ok because it's commonplace.
But it's not ok. As a fighter, I lose respect when someone doesn't give their all, or when someone doesn't take the chances given to them because they figure another chance is just down the road.
Everyone wants to say that TUF is ruining MMA? The only bad thing about it is that guys are getting it in their head that it's ok to cop out, because they'll just get a chance to return next week, or at a future UFN show. That's when they'll 'really' put on their show. Bullshit.
When you step in the ring/cage, it is real. Get over it. This isn't baseball, this isn't video games. If you don't want to get hit, cut, knocked down, knocked out, and otherwise hurt, then never step in there in the first place. Just do us a favour and get out of our way.
Is the TUF format about having some guys in there who may not win, but are there to put on an ok show for the eventual winners? Sure, you can say that. But that doesn't mean that those guys should be balking at a chance of a lifetime.
Now before you go thinking this is all hate on Tait, Kristian, Noah, or whoever else has ever been on a TUF show, keep in mind that I've been doing this a while, and I've seen guys come and go, and I've had plenty of opponents and seen plenty of other peoples' opponents back out after seeing that this is an all too real war.
Bottom line: This is not all finesse. This is not all about your abs, or your tattoos, or your groupies, or your 'crew'. This is fighting, and when you get in there, realize that it's just you, and what you bring inside of you.
If you have nothing inside of you, step the fuck out of the way. And if you don't like the reality that I'm presenting to you, make the mistake of thinking this is all a game of words, and I will eat you alive when you come across me in the cage. And you know what? So would at least 50 other people I can think of right now.
Take your opportunities, people. Challenge yourselves.
Geese 'Hell' Jones