as dudes, married or single, it seems we always acknowledge beautiful women, whether overt or not.
depite all the trash talking and machismo here, i still think most og'ers are stand up dudes and the thought crosses your mind, maybe you mention it to a buddy of yours, and thats it.
for the elder statesmen og'ers- does the perving ever stop? can you ever not see a hot chick and think "i want to bang her"? perhaps enjoy the view and move on with life?
The Popeye - As an over 50 OG'er who has been married for almost 25 years now I can tell you, the term dirty old man exists for a reason!
this is what i figured.
today was epecially hard (pun intended) at the beach. seemed like every hot surfer chick in san diego was at the beach the family and i were at, and 90% of them were in thongs. wife asked a few times if i enjoyed the view. tried to play it off, then confessed yes. was chasing 3 kids in the surf, but it was everywhere.
however, I was at my cousins HS graduation party recently and I found myself checking out all the moms a lot more than the 18 yr old girls. There was one mom there that I’m really going to ask my aunt who the hell she was. Even though I’m married, I just want to know this milf’s story. She was foolishly hot.
Biology has no off switch. Physical desires will always make themselves known and Attractive women will always be attractive.
When you are a man of your word, married or in a committed relationship you shut those impulses down. You don’t put yourself in a situation where you may be tempted. It takes forsight to not find yourself letting these things get the best of you.
When you are a honest man yourself and at peace, your wife, child, or serious girlfriend become much larger then a temptation.
Biology has no off switch. Physical desires will always make themselves known and Attractive women will always be attractive.
When you are a man of your word, married or in a committed relationship you shut those impulses down. You don’t put yourself in a situation where you may be tempted. It takes forsight to not find yourself letting these things get the best of you.
When you are a honest man yourself and at peace, your wife, child, or serious girlfriend become much larger then a temptation.
Holy shit, I’m going to be 56 in a couple of months, married to a wonderful beautiful woman for over 20 years who will have sex with me whenever I want…
It’s still not enough to stop me thinking about it though. I love my wife and would never cheat, but holy fuck, sex is on my mind half the day. I’m hard over almost nothing as much as I was as a kid.
In my case the perving does not stop. Thank god I’m still crazy attracted to my wife.
We as males are meant to breed with as many females as possible to continue our species. The fact we don’t is unnatural and is just a social construct we have because it sounds nice. That instinct will ALWAYS be ingrained into our being from the time of sexual maturity to the time we die,
David@accu - We as males are meant to breed with as many females as possible to continue our species. The fact we don't is unnatural and is just a social construct we have because it sounds nice. That instinct will ALWAYS be ingrained into our being from the time of sexual maturity to the time we die,
Never, you just get a little classier about it with age. Was helping my 80 year old neighbor in his yard the other day and a smoking girl walked by his house on her way to the park. He stopped and looked and then just said to me, “pretty girl”.
Around 25, ~18 became unbearable to be around, but still looked hot.
Some weird “dad” gene kicked in between 35-40 where anything under 25 started looking like 12. At 50, young but fully developed still looks hot but generally doesn’t appreciate the gaze.