Should I be pissed?

Otherground
#1

I'm sure some of you remember my last thread about me telling my girlfriend I love her and her replying "I Know" lmao

But I have a question

I surprised her with a trip to Tennessee two weeks ago, where I floated the bill on everything. Fast forward to this week.

We booked a flight to Utah, she has Southwest points so she didn't pay a dollar for her plane ticket. I dropped $300 on mine. I also bought the room for $150 on our last night in Salt Lake City. 

She replied with "oh I'll give you $75". 

I pay for everything, literally EVERYTHING. I’m a man and I always offer. But, Should I be pissed? 

She still hasn’t said I love you and I feel she’s taking advantage of me. 

#2

Sounds like you answered your own question. 

#3

I think you know the answers you will get.

Move on

#4

Dude...

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#5

You need to propose...

 

It's clearly the next step...

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#6

Haha 5 responses and not one that answered my question. 

#7

Did you just offer to pay for everything? Did you ask her to contribute? If you didn't ask and she still gave you $75 sounds fair enough to me. 

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#8

Find a new girlfriend. If you walk out on her without any fight or fuss she'll be confused and likely want you back. Women take guys/relationships for granted. When a guy ends things it drives them crazy and stays in the back of their mind.

#9

No, you shouldn't be pissed about the Utah trip. She covered her own flight out there, and covered her half of the room. As a stand alone example, it's fine.

 

Now in the greater scheme of things, don't get pissed, sounds like you have a lifetime of getting abused ahead of you, so get used to it 

#10
MoreThai22 -

Haha 5 responses and not one that answered my question. 

Who would you be pissed off at?  You keep doing this to yourself on a continuing basis.

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#11
Black Dougie -
MoreThai22 -

Haha 5 responses and not one that answered my question. 

Who would you be pissed off at?  You keep doing this to yourself on a continuing basis.

That's true. Everybody has literally told me to walk away since the first month or two of dating, and I for some reason haven't yet. I'm starting to warm up to the idea.

#12

Maybe have a talk with the other guys she is fucking, and see if she is treating them any better?

#13

You should be mad at yourself for being such a damn chump.

#14

ok im convinced youve been trolling us all along

i called it on your first thread about this girl

#15

If this isn’t a spin thread…

Then you suck at life.

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#16
ABCTT_Disco Dracula -

You need to propose...

 

It's clearly the next step...

Sounds like he's already married. 

#17

Weird... she paid for the hotel room when we hung out!

#18

Do not be pissed at a woman for behaving like a woman but rather be pissed at yourself for expecting anything other than what you got.

#19

How often does she let you have sex with her? 

#20
clattymine - 

How often does she let you have sex with her? 

Finally the only question that matters