Spending time with relatives before a funeral...

You did it right. Good man.

you know, this isn't popular, but.... fuck your mom and your siblings.

you need to spend time alone over this, go right ahead.

I got some shit when my dad died because I just didn't want to talk to anyone. I wanted to be left alone.

People handle things different, and not for nothing, people don't get a pass in life for being assholes as long as someone is there to shine a light on it.

that in mind, choose your battles wisely. if you truly feel this is one of those times you need to make your stand, then do so... but be sure.

go tell your relatives what you posted here. also, take up a collection for the food