Soup and Beer -
"My mother-in-law is voting Biden because she "can't stand how Trump talks". I said you only feel that way because you watch CNN all day and you've had all that negative reinforcement, Trumps policies are better for you and your family than Bidens. She agreed Bidens policies were worse for her family but "still don't like how Trump talks" so she is voting Biden."
If Trump loses because of that it means the majority of the country places more emphasis on over substance. It means they don't care if the current POTUS is fucking them to death. Just as long as they look presidential while they are doing it.
However, that would still be Trump's fault by not reigning in his outbursts a bit. If all he had to do is put on a little bit of an act to retain votes, then he made a strategic error by not doing so.
Most females feel the same way about Trump. If Trump loses, the biggest lesson learned from the post-mortem will be how damaging females were to Trump’s re-election. They are almost singlehandedly taking him out with their emotional reaction to everything that has happened in the last year, tailor made to appeal to their irrationality. Your mother in law is the perfect example.
I’ll just leave this here and not say whether or not I agree with it.