Welp, she's gone

Even getting what you want can be a little traumatizing.

Take it slow and feel your feels.

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For what it’s worth, thank you all for all the responses, good and bad. I got home, cleaned out the pool and it brought back memories, bringing on the feels. Threads like this and listening to positive Youtube videos bring me back to earth as I wouldn’t know or want to talk to anyone else about this. GRACIAS BROS!

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Way to hang in there, faggot!

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Must be something in the air right now. Know of a few people including myself who are starting fresh. Always nice to have the OG to turn to. Hope it gets easier for you.

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I thought the part with the vehicle was a bit weird. You paid it off and basically let her drive off with it. You still own it though. Are you paying the insurance too? I just don’t get it. Seems like you have a lot of money and she seemed to benefit from that with the vehicle and living situation with the only tradeoff being sleeping on the couch.

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Excellent decision take some time and get grounded again. the young snatch will be on your dick soon.
Nice pad man

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My exgf suddenly decided one day “we need to buy a house”. We’d been living in a rental for a while. I wasn’t ready for home ownership and definitely wasn’t sure about that kind of commitment with someone who was showing more and more signs of long term incompatibility. But she’d made up her mind.

I told her trying to get a loan with my name attached would be a liability, which was semi true at the time. I told her I’d be happy to pay rent until such time as I cleaned my act up. By the time I did, 2 years later, the relationship was on life support.

It did make it easy to get out though. I really only missed the two dogs we had.

While recently house shopping myself, I discovered she sold the place about 2 months after the pandemic began, which would have been barely 3 years after she bought it. She worked as a server at a swanky bar and pool and used to make plenty in tips - so it’s possible the sudden closures really screwed up her ability to afford it.

I hope my dogs are OK.

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Good for you kid. I figured this out too late and had 2 kids with a dimwitted dime piece.
Go bang some skanks and thank god you escaped unscathed.

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thanks for all the replies bros. Quick update: I’ve been listening to hypnosis videos as they’ve helped me in the past with any issues, the recent one is “letting go of the past” and i noticed i wake up feeling refreshed and looking forward to work in the morning. Gonna start TRT tomorrow as it looks like my levels were low and my insurance will cover it so i’m looking forward to that. A wife of one of the guys at work has stripper slut friends so they’re (he and his wife) are bringing several over for a private pool party next weekend. Since i’m back on the scene, i’ve been playing positive affirmations while i workout in the garage, hey anything that i can add for a positive change i’ll do.

ex hasn’t contacted me, nor i her lol like i said the only thing that kept her here was the fact that she didn’t have a vehicle to get around in so me letting her have a used explorer (it wasn’t new lol) was my price to pay for a peaceful dissolution. I’m paying the liability insurance on it only and just til the end of the month.

If anyone wants, i can post the youtube videos that i listen to while to help me relax before i get to bed as they’re great therapy with ANY problem changing bad habits, etc. I also listened to one to let go and forget your ex…just in case any feelings came up…but NOTHING. it’s like she never existed as i’m going on with my life as usual. Fuck it, hey if anyone has been having problems letting go of past arguments, people or places, try this self hypnosis video. You’ll find yourself more forgiving with friends, relatives or anyone who did you wrong:

this one is for releasing anger and resentment with guided forgiveness:

Hypnosis for Healing, Happiness & Hope - Positive Affirmations Sleep Meditation

I have several more good ones i use to meditate if anyone is interested or could use some help in any way.

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Come on Bro…we want the hypnosis videos to make our hogs bigger, not this boolsheet

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Bro… Smash and pass! Don’t make me repeat this…

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A wise man at a Wendy’s in Boise Montana (December 22nd 1996) once told me, “one man’s three holes is another man’s Queen and vice versa”.

Later in life I stopped chasing the pot of gold one hopes to find deep in those holes. There is never the treasure you hope to find.

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bro you have to drop all that weight so that the extra meaty inches buried underneath appear. there’s weight loss videos to help with motivation, GET ON IT

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HELL YEAH that’s the point, i wasn’t / am not looking for a gf lol the couple has already banged some of these hoes, he’s sharing the wealth. By the weekend rolls around, the TRT will have kicked in, and I have some viagra laying around…IT WILL BE GLORIOUS.

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I’m already in pretty good shape :grimacing:

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Dude, we would all prefer the videos of the above mentioned “friends” at the pool party to uhhh… “relax” before bed.

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