just curious
I seem to have lost my perspective of how much someone is supposed to be able to lift
I don't really consider myself strong and I'm almost always disappointed with my lifts
I know I can lift more than several people who are heavier than me by a fair bit (but they're taller too, hmm, but it can be a big weight difference too), but I just see that as them being weak
maybe it's because I work out in a college gym and i see some guys doing 300lbs+ for reps (like 6 or more sometimes) on bench, and military pressing 200lbs+
(but not really that often, i suppose...but i tend to go at around 7 or 8 am, so i miss the busy times where this would be more frequent)
it makes me feel kind of pathetic, even moreso because i'm only at 90% of my all time best condition (1yr ago, why do i start and stop so much?)
anyways, i remember a similar thread being posted here and someone answered something along the lines of "when the sum of your bench/deadlift/squat is 1000 lbs+"
if that's the case, then i've got quite a way to go still and that bothers me
for somewhat of a reference
bench press 1.05 * body weight for sets of 6
deadlift 1.49 to 1.63 * body weight for sets of 6-8
as a side note, Dan W's thread about being able to bench bodyweight in dumbbell bench press didn't seem like a big deal to me at all, but i thought that was pretty strong when he mentioned it was 95lb dumbbells
i suppose i need to increase my bodyweight (and lifts proportional to the increase in bodyweight) to feel better about my lifts
which brings me to another point
when can i consider myself not scrawny, and maybe even built
i guess it's a hard question to answer, i guess what i really want to know is when do you see someone and think "they're strong/built"
(and why do i care about what other people think anyway? well, i do, i'm embarrassed to wear t-shirts...sometimes?)
i look at my wrists and i feel pathetic, but sometimes i can feel pretty good about arms/chest/shoulders, but that can change within a day and i can consider myself too thin again
i guess this part belongs more on a mental health forum or something, whatever, nevermind then
i'll leave it at this: do any of you feel like you are where you want to be in terms of size and strength? how did you get there? do you ever doubt yourself and see a scrawny person in the mirror?
hmm, this turned out quite long, and i doubt many people will read through it, but damnit i didn't type all of this for nothing