Why Does DATING Suck!?!?!?!

i constantly hear this from my buddies and women...for some reason when i talk to older people, they kind of seem confused when us youngsters bring this up...is dating much harder now for some reason than it was 20-30 years ago??if so, why?

does dating suck worse for men or women??

Dating sucks, because you're basically doing a dual job interview for a position that neither of you really want.

Because expectations have risen while the ability to meet those expectations has fallen.

Without going into a lengthy FRAT...

-Technology and media has had some negative impact on human social interaction.

-The art of communication is evolving to accomodate the speed of electronic media and as a result, people's abilities to interact face to face has degraded to tge point where there is a lot of anxiety and ineptitude.

-Media has also changed people's expectations on physical attraction (people expect to be with gorgeous mates), sex (porn fantasies and behavioral models), and gender roles (feminism, misogyny, emasculation).

-Ultimately people just don't know how they're supposed to behave to contribute to a healthy, happy relationship. The old days were less confusing. Phone Post 3.0

I disagree that dating sucks. Sometimes "dates" suck. Or rather the woman I go on a date with. But dating is fun.

Of course I have no expectation of a date turning into some deep meaningful relationship. Or any relationship I have with a woman being "forever".

I've learned to enjoy and appreciate meeting and getting to know women as I've gotten older now.

Dating at 34 years old is awesome Phone Post 3.0

It can be fun, but you have a 90% chance of meeting a crazy biatch.

HefX - Without going into a lengthy FRAT...

-Technology and media has had some negative impact on human social interaction.

-The art of communication is evolving to accomodate the speed of electronic media and as a result, people's abilities to interact face to face has degraded to tge point where there is a lot of anxiety and ineptitude.

-Media has also changed people's expectations on physical attraction (people expect to be with gorgeous mates), sex (porn fantasies and behavioral models), and gender roles (feminism, misogyny, emasculation).

-Ultimately people just don't know how they're supposed to behave to contribute to a healthy, happy relationship. The old days were less confusing. Phone Post 3.0
Jeff Goldbloom.gif Phone Post 3.0

awesomestprime - I disagree that dating sucks. Sometimes "dates" suck. Or rather the woman I go on a date with. But dating is fun.

Of course I have no expectation of a date turning into some deep meaningful relationship. Or any relationship I have with a woman being "forever".

I've learned to enjoy and appreciate meeting and getting to know women as I've gotten older now.

Dating at 34 years old is awesome Phone Post 3.0

damn u are like the only person ive heard in theirs 30s that has said that about dating...usually all i hear are complaints...

voted up HefX

Dos Huevos Gigante - Dating sucks, because you're basically doing a dual job interview for a position that neither of you really want.
Well said Phone Post 3.0

Bry Bry - 
awesomestprime - I disagree that dating sucks. Sometimes "dates" suck. Or rather the woman I go on a date with. But dating is fun.

Of course I have no expectation of a date turning into some deep meaningful relationship. Or any relationship I have with a woman being "forever".

I've learned to enjoy and appreciate meeting and getting to know women as I've gotten older now.

Dating at 34 years old is awesome Phone Post 3.0

damn u are like the only person ive heard in theirs 30s that has said that about dating...usually all i hear are complaints...

voted up HefX

The problem with most guys dating in their 30s is that theyre dating women in their 30s. Whacka whacka.

True. The girl I'm seeing right now is 25. Fuck women in their 30s. Phone Post 3.0

Relax and make out with some chicks, how could that suck?

HefX - Without going into a lengthy FRAT...

-Technology and media has had some negative impact on human social interaction.

-The art of communication is evolving to accomodate the speed of electronic media and as a result, people's abilities to interact face to face has degraded to tge point where there is a lot of anxiety and ineptitude.

-Media has also changed people's expectations on physical attraction (people expect to be with gorgeous mates), sex (porn fantasies and behavioral models), and gender roles (feminism, misogyny, emasculation).

-Ultimately people just don't know how they're supposed to behave to contribute to a healthy, happy relationship. The old days were less confusing. Phone Post 3.0
Bingo. VU. Phone Post 3.0

It doesn't seem like it would be much fun anymore... There used to be some mystery and excitement in the unknown. Now you meet someone and you both look each other up on the internet and know everything about the other in 15 minutes. Couple that with unrealistic expectations generated by mass media and yea, I'd say dating sucks compared to 20-30 years ago.

Kelvin Gastelum fan - Narcissistic cunts. instagram and social media has amplified it.

You can take the juice out of them by just laughing it off and telling them that you dont fuck with twitter, instagram or w/e. I have no interest in being recruited as a "fan" to some broad who lives in a fantasy world wheres shes famous. Of course it doesnt stop them from having a bunch of losers fawn over them on the internet.

While dating fucking Sucks and it's very hard to find anything sustainable, one night stands and just getting laid over the Internet have become much easier.. Tinder ruined dating but made fucking easier Phone Post 3.0

people are more jaded now than ever.


futhermore, whenever you meet a girl who tells you she DOESN'T have facebook or any other form of social media... JUMP ON HER. Even if she has tons of baggage, she's telling you she's trying to stay human.

grady - people are more jaded now than ever.


futhermore, whenever you meet a girl who tells you she DOESN'T have facebook or any other form of social media... JUMP ON HER. Even if she has tons of baggage, she's telling you she's trying to stay human.


that is true from xperience

"dating" was awesome for me. A new vag to wear out every few weeks for years on end. Most of the women I crossed path with were unfit for anything but pump n' dumps though.

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