Ok I got this message from a guy on hi5.com
"I just read about you. Now let me tell/remind you more about myself. I'm 5'-7" tall and weigh 178 lbs. I live in Manchester - England but I travel frequently and especially to the United States, Pakistan, India, Canada, Mexico as well as many other places. I have to stress that I am neither trained nor professional at any combat sport - I simply fight/grapple/wrestle with friends or anyone who challenges or wishes to train/spar with me. Submission wrestling is the style where two guys wrestle to get each other in holds/moves so that their opponent can't escape or cannot take any further pain from the hold that is being applied. Usually the matches/spars are up to an hours duration, the winner being the guy at the end of the duration who has gained the most submissions or tap outs. Well, now that you know what to expect are you interested?, do you accept my challenge?, if so, please get back to me as soon as you can with your age, weight and height, let me know where you are, how many times you've wrestled this style, won and lost, if at all and anything else that you like to let me know."