"So Sultan, would you say that immaturity would be an undesirable trait for an adult?"
In short, yes. However, I would also say to each his own.
I wouldn't necessarily hang out with someone who was very immature, but it's none of my business what others do.
I know 11 year olds that can be much more mature than some of the 30 year olds I know.
It's completely dependent upon the person.
In general, there is a gap in maturity.
Where is this line of questioning going?
"This thread was a celebration of how hard it is to get a Black Belt and my level of respect for black belts.
Too bad everyone's rush to be dickheads and assholes overshadowed that fact."
LOL @ you taking 2 days to ask such an easy question.
Because it wasn't directed solely at you. But it wasn't cool and I apologize.
However, it was a defense mechanism.
No, I'm not 12.
Go ahead and ask, "so how do you justify being a hypocrite?"
Let's not take two days to ask that, please.
"You are very defensive, I had to take the round about way."
I'm only defensive when I'm being attacked just like most people.
I made a thread to celebrate the BJJ black belt and the respect that they deserve and a few guys immediately turn this into a 5 page fiasco attacking my character as a person simply because they didn't understand the wording of what I was trying to say.
How do you justify that?
Damn you guys - Let it go...
"I never cared that you made a thread celebrating BB's, I just didnt like how hypocritical you became in defending it thats all."
In trying to make a point, you have contradicted yourself.
You began with all this immaturity and condescending nature.
I thought you were going to get to a point, but it's completely obvious that you are not.
Peace out.