Go into your local martial arts centers, boxing gyms etc.
Talk to the trainers and partners of the girls.
Talk to the girls working hard and giving their all, talk to the female fighters who have sacrificed in order to reach their goals, try and understand that underneath the boobs is another person who has a passion for a sport they love.
So you have daughters, mothers, girlfriends, wives etc that you would hate to see hurt. Don't project this onto people putting their hearts into a sport they and we love.
If you truly believe what you preach then you will do this.
Love the cat fights