When has coed grappling ever been a thing before modern bjj

I uysed to look at it like a bonus. Cool I get the hot chick this time. And you can still learn from them esp if they are higher rank than you. This one chick, but was fugly was fast as hell and it was fun to roll with her because nobody else in class was even close to being that fast.

I took an intro trial BJJ class bc an instructor was renting out space in our muay thai gym

I was paired with a girl who had a sophoa vergara body, HUGE fucking tits

It was super awkward for me and i didnt know how to play it cool

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So you agree

Wtf you pervvvvv!!! How could the idea of those thoughts even BEGIN to enter your head?

In a way. For me its like seeing a cool car you like, “oh man thats awesome Id drive the fuck out of that” and then the feelings are pretty much over and back to rolling and paying attention. Im not a complete horn dog like i was in my teens so its really not that big a deal to me.

It’s pretty fun being a no stripe white belt and rolling with a female purple belt that can’t do shit to you though.

In life we are all about the hot chick and walking behind, sitting next to, talking to, working with, what ever. In reality, why would BJJ be any different.

Ive partnered with the same girl in muay thai, clinch work, etc

It was just different having her on top of me in my guard

Again, tho, im a muay thai guy with a little Judo experience

BJJ was a diff world to me

But at a bare minimum, the notion is there.

Exactly. This is what I’m saying. I’m so tired of everyone acting like that dynamic doesn’t exist.

Mate I get worse when boxing and kickboxing with the sheilas. They complain they barely get a work out in with me constantly critiquing their stance and their blocking. It annoys me no end when they just punch with no awareness of return fire.

If you are mentally stunted and an immature tard (you) sure. Some of us can interact with females in life including BJJ as normal human interactions and not make it sexual.

Is it real sparring? Lol, fuck them up.

If you are decent at bjj and an able-bodied adult man and you are seeking out cute girls as soon as it’s time to roll, jiu jitsu is not the first thing on your mind. You cannot convince me otherwise.

That is a different post than the shit you have been saying not to mention it isn’t the point I’ve been arguing with you on.

So now you dial it down to some dude who “as soon as rolling starts bee lines to small cute girls and rolls with them”

Yeah anyone who always does that is suspect and a possible real weirdo. But I don’t recall many if any people I’ve trained with doing that. But I don’t pay attention to who everyone is rolling with.

You first assertion and subsequent posts were painting a much broader brush than that not to mention your other shitty points that I addressed.

It’s in my original post.

Girls training do bring up a host of problems. Some their fault, some not.

For me the phenomenon of every dude flocking to teach his bad Jiu-Jitsu to the new cute girl is super frustrating. I will stop them and tell them purples and above are coaches. If you’re a white or blue belt, don’t be pontificating on your theories of Jiu-Jitsu to the hot new girl.

Also I’ve only seen this really rarely but I’ve seen girls make rolling more sexual than guys.

This is also your original post which I was addressing. Obviously someone only rolling with females or going straight to them is suspect and possible weirdo.

But you seem perplexed how someone could roll with a female and not make it sexual. And then you say it is such a complete waste of time there is no way anyone should want to roll with them. Yeah, well I could say that about a lot of lower belts not on my level that I can handle like a newborn baby. According to you it’s all a waste of time.

Thankfully these higher level guys rolled with me when I was lower and not as good.

Again, not everyone is an immature tard or a selfish self centered prick like you.

Liar :lying_face:

if you are worrying about hurting someone everytime you roll with anyone, you are a problem and need to learn some technique. If you are unable to control yourself and go from 100% to 5%, you are not very good!