This is really making me angry...i'm a pretty calm person generally.
Anyways one of my new guys at my gym, is a real nice guy, not superathletic, but he took up bjj and he loves it and mauy thai as well. Been trainign about 2-3 weeks solid now. He's just a harmless guy, about 62 kg's, pretty funny etc, u guys know guys like him, pretty hard not to like.
Neways turns out he's been getting bullied at university. He met a dude there that seemed nice, was pretty popular and just sorta joined in their group, was kewl for a while but they started picking on him a bit like teasing him etc, testing him, trying to embarress him etc.
They setup a poker night so they could get him to spar (before he started training) and they egged him on till he did it and got punched in the face and wanted to stop.
Now they are sending round mails to all the people he knows etc saying "name is a pussy...typical asian" because he wouldnt agree to a 10 round rematch (lol fucking knowitall dumbasses even put half assed boxing rules and a reffing system).
Man i am so angry, this guy is the sweetest most innocent dude and i just wanna go there and wreck these guys. Obviously legal reasons are an issue. Neways the "leader" of their group wants to spar one of my guys whos been doing it a year and fought kickboxing once, had about 16 BJJ and sub wrestling matches and they wanna spar the new guy as well.
They even went as far as saying "gym name just teaches u how to be a pussy".
NEways i fucking hate bullies especially ones that pretend to be ure friend.
Some advise guys would be great i'm really angry at the moment.
Rev, one of the guys they wanna spar with is a good christian. I dont wanna advise him wrong as to what to do. He wants to stick of for his friend who is being picked on but i dont wanna encourage him to do something against his religious beliefs.
Seriously.. The guy just needs a bit of confidence. He doesn't need to solve anything with his fists.. I win my battles with quick wit and words people don't understand.
Job i think ure right. Gonna do a bit more smacktalking with him, something that really helped me deal with dickheads like this guy, just me and my mates sling insults at eachother so much that nothing phases u. We actually use that to help kids with bullying at our gym.
Walbjj, he met them at uni but became friends outside. They are all asian and the guy just wanted into their group coz they are popular on campus or something. Neways they are just being bullies like high school, playing tricks on him to embarress him etc, liek really fuct up shit etc. Now getting a guy to punch him...pretty fuct. Lucky he is picking up M.t/ BJJ really quick, he got his first tap today with a RNC
Just get into that group with them and start talking trash to them like they do to your friend. You train at this gym "that just teaches you how to be pussies" that they were referring to. Get a few of them in the ring and make a point. If they won't step up, then that makes the point for you doesn't it? What you and they already know is that they only mess with this guy because they know they can whip him. Just make sure that gets revealed by stepping up against a few of them and seeing how tough THEY are.